I’m not who you think I am.
When you look at my blog, it’s easy to think that writing comes easily to me, that I’ve always been a writer.
But that’s not true.
I’ve never thought of myself as a writer.
Many writers say that they always wanted to be a writer. They wrote poems when they were young. They kept diaries through the years. They dreamed of being a published author.
I’m not like that.
At school, I wasn’t good at writing essays. I didn’t like it, and I didn’t understand why my essays were average or worse.
I never wrote poems. I never dreamed about becoming an author. I never felt like I was creative. And I only kept a travel diary when I went backpacking for 5 months in China when I was 20.
Throughout most of my life, I probably wrote as little as possible.
But something changed …
In 2011, content marketing was becoming popular.
I was working as a marketing director at a small company, and I realized I had to learn how to write better.
I read a couple of books on content marketing and writing. I took a course. I studied blog posts and sales pages to figure out how other people put a piece of writing together.
I discovered that writing isn’t magic.
I could learn how to write, how to share my ideas, how to structure my writing, how to engage readers and be more persuasive.
I also fooled myself …
I told myself that writing a blog or a sales letter wasn’t real writing. It was the kind of not-quite-real-writing that I could master as a non-creative person.
Weird, eh?
I had to tell myself I wasn’t really writing so I could start writing.
When Copyblogger published my first guest post in April 2012, I gained confidence in my writing skills. I realized it was time to escape corporate life and get rid of the boss I hated. It was time to fly out and start my own business.
I didn’t really know how I’d earn my money. Maybe some consultancy. I had some savings, and I was planning to take a sabbatical to figure things out and recover from the years of corporate stress, office politics, and bruising budget fights.
I also wanted to write a few guest posts to raise my online profile.
I left my job at the end of September 2012, and to my surprise, I got quickly hired as a freelance writer. It wasn’t a career I had envisioned. I still didn’t see myself as a writer, and I hadn’t thought anyone would hire a non-native English speaker as a writer.
And now?
About 9 years later, I have published two books, coached several hundred people, and created a portfolio of popular writing courses.
How did I become a writer?
When I was growing up, my teachers and parents gave me the impression I wasn’t good at writing. I wasn’t creative, and it wasn’t something I could learn.
These negative messages stuck with me for many years.
But talent is overrated. I was far more capable of acquiring new skills than I realized.
Why am I sharing this?
I’d like to tell you that you don’t need to feel like a writer. You can just write.
We all write, don’t we?
Whether it’s emails, social media updates, blog posts, sales pages, or books—each piece of writing, no matter how tiny, is an opportunity to share our thoughts and to create something that didn’t exist before.
As Stephen Fry suggested:
We are not nouns, we are verbs. I am not a thing – an actor, a writer – I am a person who does things – I write, I act – and I never know what I am going to do next. I think you can be imprisoned if you think of yourself as a noun.
You don’t need to call yourself a writer. You can just write.
A remarkable transformation
When I quit my job in 2012, writing was a challenging, stressful task. I was full of doubts, and I often procrastinated all day before I finally sat down to write.
I don’t know why I persisted.
But slowly, I learned to make peace with my inner critic. I learned to sit with my fears, and to move forward regardless. I learned to tiptoe through the hard parts of writing.
In the last 3 years, I have struggled with low energy. I’ve worked only two hours per day, as my body is healing from trauma.
Somehow, writing has become the most joyful part of my days. It doesn’t matter whether I’m slow, anxious, exhausted, or foggy all day. While writing, I feel alive. I feel connected to the best part of myself.
And I always imagine you—yes, you!—cheering me on. You encourage me to keep writing and to keep showing up. You help me feel safe and alive. Thank you.
Am I now a writer?
Perhaps. I don’t know, and it doesn’t matter. I write and I love writing.
I’d like to tell you this …
It doesn’t matter whether you feel like a writer or not. It doesn’t matter how old or young you are. How tired or energetic. How fearful or courageous. How doubtful or confident.
You can write. You can learn to write better, to share your ideas, to educate, inspire, and connect with your readers.
No one is born a writer.
But we’re all human, and we all have stories, experiences, and wisdom to share.
Happy writing, my friend, and thank you for reading.
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Oh, I love this. So encouraging. I’ve always had writing in the background while doing my day job. It was late before I realized I wanted to make a career out of it. But I’m glad I did. It’s fulfilling, and I earn better.
I think that making a career out of writing later in life helped me appreciate it more. It’s like getting a second life. So glad you’ve found your way, too. Happy writing!
Thanks Henneke. Very inspirational. Writing is indeed a lifetime of growing, learning, and adapting. Following our hearts and our instincts. A journey full of curves, bumps, roadblocks, frustration, that only the very determined will survive.
You have survived and thank you for continuing to share your experiences with us.
Yes, I agree. It’s not an easy journey but it’s worthwhile to keep going. I hope you’re continuing your journey, too!
Thanks for sharing this, Henneke. It really inspired me and gave me some direction.
You said you had experience in marketing. I have almost none. How important do you think this is in order to become a content writer? I have the same question about SEO. Most job ads for content writers require “great SEO skills”. Again, mine are basic. What would you do in my position? Thank you!
I would start with learning SEO. There is a great deal of free information available. For instance, MOZ have a free beginner’s guide which is a good starting point. You’ll also find many SEO experts on LinkedIn, sharing tips and advice freely.
For marketing, it’s probably most useful to start with content marketing strategy. You may have studied some of that already?
It rings bells to my ears that i am not alone when it comes to struggling to find a mind map where to start.i usually have amazing ideas but the beauty of words that could doll up my so called very vivid ideas never come to life.i make cut-pieces of words that never happens to complete a whole piece.i feel i can write good sentences.amazing word chains ,but when will i pick and give something complete,something accomplished.
I juggle alot between genres to know exactly what i quite want to write.
You are a beacon of light i see as i am approaching 40 and my mind does not want to rest me.i cant help struggling to find right words choice.
Pls write back i want you to tell me how to finally start.
Regards!
Good writing never happens in one go, so maybe give yourself permission to write a bad first draft. Let that draft simmer for at least 24 hours or maybe longer, then start looking for what’s good already, what you need to throw, and what you need to improve. The revision process works best step by step. Start with the big picture before looking at writing good sentences. When you focus too much on each sentence, you may not get the story line right.
Thank you for sharing this.
We (and others around us) can tell ourselves some pretty big lies. I’m glad you finally realized how amazing you are. I love your blog and your writing. Keep going
Thank you for your lovely comment, Daniel.
Whenever I needs a motivation I read this.
That warms my heart. Thank you for letting me know, Emma. And happy writing!
Henneke, thank you!
Timely words, just like the universe, generous, challenging, inspiring, right like rain.
You are the same. You are a wonderful person and it’s a pleasure to spend time with you. What a treat, that you have shared your authentic loving heart and your go getting insights!
Awww, what a lovely, warm-hearted comment, Lee-Anne. Thank you so much. <3
Thank you for sharing your story. Inspiring 🙂
Thank you, Melissa. Happy writing!
Thank you Henneke for your reply I was not expecting it. Thanks for the much-needed motivation. Keep Shining
Thanks, Henneke, I feel encouraged already. I thought I should feel like a writer to write too. However, when I sit to write, my fingers move, and I sometimes wonder where they are going. Then I realize, I have written something.
No need to feel like a writer — that feeling may come over time. Just keep writing (and enjoy it!)
A wonderful post, Henneke. I find in your story my story. I write in a foreign language: Italian is not my mother tongue, because my family spoke slang (a type of Venetian language).
And I have never thought to record a podcast (about the criminal case I have been working for years).
When I was a child I stuttered like… King George VI. But some women during my life told me that I have a very nice and intriguing voice. And, incredible, a charming woman recently said that she likes my accent. Oh My God – I thought – if my voice is nice and I have a story, why don’t I have to record a podcast in my foreign language like Henneke did with her posts?
I will follow your example, dear Henneke: chatting with my inner critic and try to give voice to people that feel themselves as I feel myself about rights and justice. Thanks for you advice!
I’ve always been more nervous about speaking English than writing English. I’ve never been able to get rid of my Dutch accent and I’ve been teased a lot about my accent. But I’ve found, that as long as you speak clearly and people can understand you, it’s okay. It’s still a sensitive point for me. Why can’t we just celebrate all our accents and our ability to still communicate with each other?
Great price of content, Henneke! Loved reading the post. Keep it up and thank you for sharing.
Thank you, Kevin. I am glad you enjoyed this.
Henneke, I feel inspired by you I really feel the writer must write about themselves too.
Thanks for sharing
Yes, that’s a good point. The most interesting writing is often personal. Thank you for stopping by, Melissa.
I am going thru trauma and I lost my job due to covid. I am working the hours I can for a Tyrant boss who has me do her job my job and blocks me from getting the pay I was promised & earned. I am trying to recover while living with narcolepsy, lupus & some sort of ADHD(judging from all my unfinished home projects). I’ve been told my life is more entertaining than some of the best Mexican dramas. I would like to write to be free and make money. Your post is inspirational
I’m so sorry you’re going through such a difficult time. Writing is a great way to manage your own time, work only the hours you can work, and free yourself from a boss (although clients can be difficult, too!).
Hi, I’m Rich. I’m in my 40’s too and recently started my own blog in addition to my job. I loved reading you, it’s so inspiring. I just wanted to post it. Thank you Henneke
Thank you so much, Rich. I appreciate your comment. Happy blogging!
Nice post, so inspiring. I try to write every day (in my own mother tongue), but I never show it because I feel embarrassed, … How can you fight this feeling?
Thanks to share your experience!
Fighting such feelings can be exhausting. Try to acknowledge your fears and understand that it’s normal—all writers have to face their fears. Next, try to find tactics to take a step forward and tiptoe out of your comfort zone. For instance, show it to just one person you trust. Or if there’s one social media platform where you’re hardly active, can you post it there?
Remember, if you get negative feedback, it’s not personal. See whether the feedback makes sense or not. If it doesn’t make sense, discount it. If it makes sense, try to improve next time.
We often identify with our writing but you are not your writing. Our task as creators is to write and when we’ve finished a piece, start the next one.
Also, no piece of writing is ever perfect.
I wrote more about dealing with my inner critic here: https://www.enchantingmarketing.com/my-inner-critic/
And about dancing with fears here: https://www.enchantingmarketing.com/writing-fears/
Writing every day is already a great start!
It’s good to see so many people appreciating you.
Yes, I’m grateful for that.
Hello Henneke, good morning. Happy Year of much prosperity, successes, and much health, mainly.
I want to thank you for all the posts that I have received from you. They are very teaching and motivating to start us as writers or simply how to write. I have always liked to write but I have never dared to believe that I should be a university student. I opened a blob precisely for that, but there I have it stuck waiting for me to decide. I have spent my life procrastinating and starting things and not finishing them, among other defects that have accompanied me for many years. But Henneke would love to try. I have no resources, that is not why I mean that everything should be free, although your publications are very valuable.
I wish you have an excellent day and a lot of peace.
Sincerely:
Ricardo R Ramirez R
Hello Ricardo,
You don’t need a university education to write. Many writers have skipped university, and many are mostly self-taught. I’ve been to uni but didn’t learn to write at uni. If anything, I’ve had to unlearn bad writing habits I picked up while at university. Academic writing isn’t always the best writing.
Procrastination can be unlearned. It takes time and practice. It helps to try nurturing a regular writing habit. Start as small as possible. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Pick something you like to write about. Tell yourself it’s only an experiment, and try to write just 15 minutes a day.
You don’t need to turn writing immediately into a career. Start small and keep going.
Wishing you many moments of writing joy in 2022. Happy New Year!
Hello,Henneke!
You are indeed a whiz of a writer.
I have chosen you as one of writing heros with Jon Morrow of Smartblogger.
I have your pictures and I dream of writing effortlessly persuasive as you exhibit in your writings.
I hope to write you someday to share my writing samples with you as I keep move through the gears.
Health and prosperity to you,mom.
Solomon ,with love from Nigeria.
Thank you, Solomon. What a lovely compliment. I’m honored to inspire your writing.
By the way, the process of writing is never effortless. The writer puts the effort in so the reading feel effortless.
Happy writing, and best wishes for the new year!
As a fellow 40-something just delving into the world of copywriting and proofreading, I really appreciate this. Unlike you, I have always dreamed of being a writer BUT until recently, I didn’t think there was any point because I thought the only way I could be a writer was to be a fiction author. I also thought I’d never amount to anything but a teacher, but I suddenly found myself without a classroom or a desire to be in one after 13 years. Writing found me when I was at my darkest. Procrastination is and always will be an issue for me as well. Same with imposter syndrome. But I’m pushing through it. Thanks for showing me that it’s possible.
I’m glad you’ve found your way to writing, Jill. There are so many different ways to write which we don’t learn about when we are young.
By the way, I used to think that one is a procrastinator as if procrastination is an inherent trait. But I’ve learned procrastination is a habit and can be unlearned. It takes time and practice but can be done. There’s more possible than I ever thought.
Happy writing!
Enjoyed reading this post, Henneke! Thanks for sharing 🙂
Thank you, Sampada. Good to see you! 🙂 I hope you’re keeping safe and well.
You are an inspiration for everyone out there who gets afraid when taking a new step.
Thank you, Robert. Happy writing!
You’re the best for imparting your excursion to us. It truly gave us knowledge into what your identity is and made you more human. Your article has consistently assisted me with acquiring some points of view about myself. I concur with you, the ability is exaggerated, and you can obtain new abilities at whatever stage in life. I’m truly happy that you forged ahead regardless of the cynicism.
Thank you for your lovely comment, Kim. I’m glad you agree that we can all acquire new skills later in life. Happy writing!
Hi Henneke,
It was such an inspiring post! Thanks a lot for sharing your journey with us. It really gave us insight into who you are, and made you more human. Your article has always helped me gain some perspective about myself. I agree with you, talent is overrated, and you can acquire new skills at any age. I am really glad that you continued on despite the negativity. Thanks a lot for reminding me that I can write, I have bookmarked your post to read on difficult days. Thanks again.
Thank you for your lovely comment, John. I’m glad this helped you gain some perspective. Happy writing!
Thank you for sharing your story. Inspiring 🙂
Thank you, Ken. I appreciate your stopping by! 🙂
Indeed very good post-Henneke, Hard work pays off.
I think being deliberate and focused is more important than hard work. It’s making the work (and learning) we do count.
Dear Henneke,
I love your writing style, which is simple and clear. It has a smooth flow.
As for me, I am yet to discover my style, as my debut book is a complex subject matter and needs a lot of study and research keeping me up on my toes. I am experimenting with poetic prose and fiction style in non fiction. I enjoy writing too, and love the literary devices and nuances of the English language, although it’s not my native tongue either. We do have a hoard of successful writers here in our country, as we were ruled by englishmen for 2 centuries and it’s not something unique. Most of the urban dwellers tend to converse with at least 50 pc of English words. I am trying to hone my skills to the best of my abilities. and have learnt a lot from other writers. Hats off to your struggle too!
And thanks a lot for the encouragement. Let us keep writing for the sake of it, and with a goal, as that will keep us pepped up and get going.
Lots of love..
Yes, let us all keep writing.
It sounds like you’ve set yourself a good writing challenge. I hope it brings you joy.
Thank you for stopping by, Rajashree. I appreciate it.
Hi Ma’am Namaskar 🙏
It’s always fascinating to read you.
Knowing about that you too are a late starter in writing had given me a reason to feel comfortable.
I’m of almost 50 and only this year in 2021 I published my maiden book (novel).
The novel titled ‘Kicks of Nostalgia’ is the collection of the anecdotes from of my college days, it can be called a memoir or autobiography.
When I started I was hesitant but once i started i felt that I’m getting fuelled with so many ideas that I decided to write my novel in volumes one each for my there years of life at my college from where I was graduated.
I loved writing my book, it makes me feel that I’m strolling with my college days friends in the corridors of my hostel or playing soccer in the stadium.
Ma’am I know that flaws were there in my maiden book but I also know that there is always a scope for improvement. I’m learning and I’m improving. Now I’m on the halfway of the second volume of my novel.
I feel happy to tell you that your articles are so enlightening, every time read you i feel enlightened, happy and relaxed.
Ma’am it’s available on Amazon also in paperback and in Kindle as ebook.
Please keep writing the enlightening writing tips. You don’t know that how many people get enlightened and benefitted from your writing.
My regards to all in your family.
Wish you all the best🙏
Regards
Vijay Bisht
India
Congratulations on publishing your first book, Vijay. That’s fabulous.
And I’m impressed that you’ve already started writing your next book.
I wish you much writing joy!
So nice of you Ma’am
Your words mean a lot to everyone you respond.
Have a great day
Regards
Thank you for this post, Henneke. I needed to hear this because writing gives me joy too!
That’s so lovely. Happy writing, Swetha!
Hi Henneke,
I always love your blog posts, but this is the first one I’ve felt the urge to comment on… mostly because I resonate so much with what you’re saying!
I never got good grades in English, and essays were the things that always pulled me down. Even recently, I got near perfect scores in everything except the essay section on my IELTS.
But somehow, I managed to leave all that behind and start writing blog posts for clients… and they seem to genuinely like what I write!
I guess the point of this was just to say that I’m where you were before, still trying to find my place and struggling to call myself a writer (especially when my uni friends go, “Oh, this essay will be easy for you since you’re a writer!”) Your story is so, so inspiring!
People that think that writing is easy are usually people who are bad at writing. Even when we become experienced writers, writing remains hard.
Thanks so much for stopping by to share your story, Ananya. Keep writing and you’ll find your place. Happy writing!
HI,
I have followed you for many years and have loved it. I recommend your site to anyone wanting to learn to write. I wish you had been my English teacher in school. It would have saved me years of misery!! With your guidance and suggestions I have become a successful art blogger. My blog will be 13 years strong this January. I now write articles for art magazines as well. But the biggest change is I now describe myself as an Art Writer. (Coming from someone that dragged herself through every English course she ever took, that is amazing.) Keep writing, the joy you feel is there in your work.
Thank you so much for stopping by to share your story, Wendy. How wonderful that you’re now writing for art magazines, too. Are you enjoying your writing more, too?
That was lovely. I especially loved the quote. Thank you for sharing this. I do consider myself a writer since I’ve been writing forever but mostly for myself. When I tried copywriting, however, it was a whole other story because I haven’t persisted and I let my fear masked by procrastination get the better of me. Which honestly is a real shame.But I’m glad you continued and that writing brings you joy and life now.
Isn’t it interesting how we are okay with different types of writing? The idea of writing something for myself is completely alien to me. I wouldn’t know where to start. Yet, writing copy was probably the easiest for me to get into. Perhaps because of my background in marketing?
I hope that writing is bringing you joy, too, Amelle. Thank you for stopping by to share your story.
One of the best pieces of advice and motivation for newbie copywriters.
When I was starting(I’m still a newbie though) I was very under-confident and one of the books that helped me a lot and which still read, again and again, is “Blog to Win Business”.
Easy way to find your “VOICE & STYLE”
And how to find Ideal clients with easy-to-understand restaurant examples.
Thanks for this amazing blog post and I’ll share this with those who are starting out.
(As there are rumors that only native-English speaker can be a good copywriter:)
Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Vinish, and for sharing this blog post with others who it may help.
I’m glad you’re enjoying my book Blog to Win Business. Happy blogging!
Henneke,
I have enjoyed, appreciated and learned from you from your very first e-mail. I responded to your first e-mail for one reason. Your voice. Who you are. The values you hold and live. The quality of life you strive to exemplify, your gentle strength, your heart, all came through the words you put in that email. ( And, yes. I still read and re-read your grammar lessons. There is not a better grammar teacher on this planet than you!) I pray your health is much improved. And, I am really glad your became a writer. Grace and peace
What a lovely comment. Thank you, Curtis. And thank you so much for your kind encouragement through so many years.
I think I get stuck with writing about grammar. I like to teach some parts of grammar, especially as it relates to voice, but a lot of grammar bores me.
Thank you for this, Henneke! I always really enjoy reading your posts & I think you have mastered the art of clear, succinct content!
Thank you so much, Katie. That’s a lovely compliment. Thank you for stopping by.
I so needed to hear this.
Learning to write copy is my escape plan from a long corporate career. Your words nudge me forward 🙂
Thanks for the encouragement and reassurance that it’s OK to not feel like a writer…….yet.
It also turned out to be my escape route out of a corporate career. I just didn’t realize it at the time. No need to feel like a writer, just keep writing and go for it. I’ve never regretted starting anew.
Thanks for stopping by, Sarah!
Amazing text, Henneke! It has just translated my deep feelings
Thank you, Paulo. Happy writing!
Thank you for this! Not only are there nuggets of inspiration, but I enjoy your writing style. I study the way you write!
Thank you, Celia. I appreciate your compliment. Happy writing!
It’s never too late to enjoy a happy childhood.
Or the wonderful world of living creatively.
Recently while enjoying, “Decoding Greatness: How the Best in the World Reverse Engineer Success,”-Ron Friedman, I thought of how great you are at sharing how you break down delicious writing examples.
Thank you for your ideas and inspiration.
Yes, that’s so true: “It’s never too late to enjoy a happy childhood.” I’ll remember that. It does feel like my inner child is finally happy.
And yes, I love reading good writing and then breaking down why it’s so good. It’s one of my favorite types of posts to write, and I also think it’s an essential part of learning to write better.
Thank you, Phil. I appreciate your compliment.
Thanks, Henneke, I feel encouraged already. I thought I should feel like a writer to write too. However, when I sit to write, my fingers move, and I sometimes wonder where they are going. Then I realize, I have written something.
I remember reading advice from a writing coach in my early years of writing, and he also said, just call yourself a writer—as if that was the precondition for building a writing habit. I think it’s the wrong way around. Just do the writing, then feeling like a writer will come. Thank you for stopping by, Grace. Happy writing!
Dear Henneke, thanks for your human and deep post.
“While writing, I felt alive. I felt connected to the best part of myself”, you writes in your article. It’s true.
I am writing my first novel (inspired by that Italian criminal case) and I feel happy when I give life to the people of my story.
I have always avoided to write a novel. I am a journalist and journalism works with facts, not with stories that are not true.
Some teachers since I was 17 years old encouraged me to write stories, but I thought that there were too many writers (and many are bad writers, without humanity).
Now you teach us, Henneke, that perhaps somewhere there is someone who doesn’t need a new writer (or a composer, or a filmmaker), but a person who writes their story that can educate, inspire, make other people less alone.
Thank you, Henneke
How exciting that you’re writing your first novel!
How can there ever be enough writers? I’m glad you changed your mind on that.
I like your point on writing a story to make other people less alone. I often find company in books and love following along in people’s journeys, whether real or imagined.
Thanks so much for stopping by again, Maurizio. I appreciate it.
This is so inspiring! Thank you so much Henneke. I’m certainly one of the many cheering you on. I’ve learned so much from you and am looking forward to much more. Thanks for being you!
Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Soul, and for cheering me on!
Henneke.
You never fall to inspire.
Regards
Trevor
Thank you, Trevor. I appreciate your compliment.
You did not imagine we were cheering you on!
We were.
You imparted more to us than facts about copywriting.
You imparted your self. You were—and always will be—ours.
And that goes beyond a skillset. That is art.
Awww. Thank you, Katherine. You’re right. I do know you’re always cheering me on. Thank you for all your kindness and encouragement.
You are most welcome! 🙂
I was surprised to read that English is not your first language. Why did you choose to develop your written English skills instead of in your native language?
I’m asking you this because I’m currently working on a book in English, which I started writing while living in Costa Rica. Where I worked only in Spanish or English.
However, I changed my website when I returned to Montreal (with a new project) and now write in French, including a blog since my contacts are mainly in that language now.
However, I like to write in all three languages, but I feel torn when it’s time to sign up for online courses to improve my writing skills. I tend to prefer English, but I wonder if this is a good thing? If it would be better to do it in French from now on. I have already written a book in Spanish, another in French and now in English.
I would really appreciate your opinion on this.
Thank you for your good advice on improving our writing.
I never considered writing in my native language (Dutch). I live in the UK and read mostly English. The writing course I took was in English, too. So, writing in English always felt the most logical thing to do. Besides, most Dutch people can read English so I didn’t really feel the need to write in Dutch, too.
I now find writing in English much easier than writing in Dutch. I can write in Dutch but it takes me longer and I feel more uncertain whether I’m choosing the right words.
So, I much admire your ability to write books in three different languages. That’s fabulous!
I don’t know which language you should pick. You could either approach it rationally (where’s the biggest opportunity for your work?) or follow your intuition (writing in which language do you enjoy most?). Or if it’s specifically about choosing a course, which course do you think best matches your needs? You can usually apply what you learn in one language to another language, too.
Thank you Henneke for your prompt answer. I really appreciate it!
Writing to you also opened my mind to another truth. It’s by taking the time to see how we feel that we can better define our specific needs.(It’s what I’m teaching people to do)
You are such a great example of what is possible. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Henneke,
Thank you so very much for this post. Including Stephen Fry’s comment was pure inspiration on your part and a path changer for me.
Being a verb, rather than a noun, will make this adventure less stressful and more fun and joyful.
Yes, it’s weird how nouns come with so much baggage (and stress!). It’s much easier to ignore the nouns and just do the verbs. Happy writing, Dennis!
It is some time since I first came across your Blog, and indeed since we met up – how many years ago was that?
You have consistently written relatable, inspiring, fun posts during that time. I don’t have an online business now – I simply read your articles because they are so good. (I also point lots of people to your site).
Like you, I was told in school that I had little creative talent. But you know, these days I spent a lot of time painting, creating patterns and selling them! So that Stephen Fry speaks a lot of good sense.
It’s great to hear that you’re on the mend Henneke – here’s to a full recovery. 😘
Gosh, yes, I have no idea how long ago that was. I do remember how lovely it was to meet you and your sister, and it was in the middle of winter.
I love that quote from Stephen Fry. I read it a couple of years ago, and I often remind myself of it. It seemed to fit this post perfectly.
So glad to hear you’re spending your time painting, creating patterns, and selling them. Here’s to us all discovering and enjoying creativity!
Thanks so much for stopping by again, Caroline. It humbles me to know you’re still reading my blog. Thank you.
For the most part, writing has always been a part of my life in one form or another. It did prove somewhat therapeutic during the recovery phase following a traumatic accident as I wrote to keep my mind occupied. To make a very long story short, what I’d scripted during that eventually period proved to be my first manuscript and netted two novels (one published April 2020 and the other pending release) some eleven years later. There’s so much that occupies my mind writing has become necessary for me to function.
Congratulations on your two novels! That’s fab. And also good to hear how writing proved therapeutic during your recovery. Thank you for sharing your story, B.G.
Oh my goodness, I’m so appreciative of you sharing your story. Your “before” sounds just like me..writing as little as possible (including and especially social media), and your “after” is so encouraging because I just turned 40 and I’m looking to really start expressing more. THANK YOU
I still write very little on social media as I prefer writing my blog. I don’t even have a Facebook account. So, don’t a low social media profile stop you from starting to write more.
Thank you for stopping by, Angel. Happy writing!
I think people can do whatever they truly want. The question is about the level and to what extent it’s being done. What we think most about is what we’ll become. Becoming a freelance writer and author is my goal. Thank you for the inspiration!
I admire people who know what they want to do and think that anyone can do what they truly want. It’s not how I’ve grown up. I think it’s a cultural difference. It’s just not how the Dutch think (at least most of them). Happy writing, Denise!
Henneke,
I have been reading your blogs from 2015 when I started leading a content writing team for an ecommerce store.
The way you describe writing: The breaks, the rhythm, the continuation, and the consistency is simply remarkable.
Thanks so much for your lovely comment, Sharjeel, and for reading my blog for so many years!
Dear Henneke,
I love reading your blogs, and have taken your course on copywriting. You are an inspiration for me to keep working with creative combinations of words to make an object interesting. I’m staying true to who I am, but some sites want you to write at a 5th grade level, and maybe by my trying to be creative, and too profound, I might not win over some readers.
Thank you for your story. You are delightful!
Jan Maitland
Thank you for your kind words, Jan.
5th grade sounds quite challenging. I think my writing is mostly around 7th grade but I haven’t really paid attention to it for a long time. I should check it out again!
Hi Henneke,
I agree with Diana – this is wonderful and inspirational. I too direct people in my writing classes to your website. You have such a kind way of making people feel accepted and less alone in their struggle to write (or to get through whatever they may be struggling with). Thanks for all you do.
Thanks so much for your kind words, Rachel, and for sharing my work with your students. I much appreciate that.
Hi Henneke,
This story of yours is exactly what I needed. I have been an on-again, off-again writer for years, and as a non-native English speaker I have spent TOO much time worrying about my writing skills. Instead, I should have put all the energy into improving those skills.
Thank you for your virtual, gentle push!
Yes, I know the feeling—spending too much time worrying and not enough time actually doing what we want to do. Having to cut down on my working hours made me realize how much a time waster all those worries are, so I learned to just get started and then to keep going, step by step.
Happy writing, Jelena, and thank you for stopping by.
Hi Henneke I loved reading about your journey to becoming a writer. Reading your posts over the years has cultivated my writing muscle and I am now working on an eBook. My biggest takeaway from you has been on how to use words as ‘seasoning’ when writing. You are quite masterful at this and I often refer to your article about making words that ‘dance’ to inspire me. What a brilliant fiction writer you would make,Henneke. I hope that’s on the cards for you in the future.
I really don’t know, Poovanesh. Fiction writing still feels like the kind of “real” writing that isn’t for me. Maybe one day I get an idea and want to try it out. For now, I’m just happy writing my blog 🙂
It humbles me to know that you’ve kept reading me. Thank you.
Hi Henneke,
What a wonderful and inspirational blog post! Your words have a lasting impact in helping others move forward with their writing goals. Over the years, I have enjoyed your posts and incorporated your tips into my instruction for copywriting students. (I teach for Continuing Education in Canada) I encourage students to visit your website.
I share this with you as you never know the reach you can have with your content.
All the Best and thank you,
Diana
Thank you so much for your compliment, Diana, and for sharing my writing with your students. I much appreciate it.
Oh, Henneke!
I loved this article and enjoyed reading it all the way. That’s the magical part of our writing, you just are engaging and so entertaining even when you are opening your heart and feelings to us. You are very inspiring to me!
English is my second tongue so I´m not as confident, but your story makes me feel less critical of myself and willing to write… like I´m doing right now haha
Sending a lot of love and vibes your way!
Thanks so much for your lovely comment, Lucia. I’m glad you enjoyed this article. Sending lots of love your way!
Well, whether you consider yourself a writer or not… I am a fan!
Thanks for sharing your story and inspiring so many.
And hope your healing comes soon.
Thank you so much for inspiring and encouraging me, Margie!
No one is born a writer.
Too right!
Yes! How can a baby be a writer?!?
Excellent success story, thank you for sharing
I’m glad you enjoyed it, Prashanth.
Hello Henneke,
This is an inspiring message to me. I’ve seen my friends venturing into writing but I’ve always shied away. I later decided to become a freelancer. I’m struggling with writing, sending pitches and other marketing strategies. My rate of procrastination is too but I believe I’ll overcome it soonest. Thank you for your inspirational content. I’m improving my writing day by day.
It sounds like you’re on the right track, Michael as you mention improving your writing day by day. That’s how it works. Step by step. And the same approach can help overcome procrastination, too. Try not to worry about any big goals and focus on working on your next step only. Do the work that’s right in front of you.
Hi there, Henneke,
I read your newsletter the moment your email dropped into my inbox.
As others also have mentioned,( you don’t need me to say this), I find your writing effortless with an easy flow of words.
I am 71 going on 72 staying in Mumbai, INDIA. Like you, I am also non-English. Your writing surely makes me and others think that we too can take to writing in English. Believe me, we would be none the worse for it!
Here’s wishing that you get over your trauma as soon as you possibly can!
Looking forward to receiving your newsletter more regularly.
By for now,
Best regards,
Ram Iyengar
Thank you for your kind message, Ram. I’m trying to stick to a fortnightly publishing schedule now. Let’s hope I can keep it up!
What a lovely message this is. And so true. Thank you
Thank you, Kim.
Geweldig hoor, Henneke, vooral die quote van Stephen Fry heeft er goed ingehakt bij mij. Keep up the good writing!
Ja, die quote is goed, hè?
Dear Henneke,
Thank you for sharing your story. Reading about your journey to becoming a writer has given me the push (more like a shove) that I desperately need to stop procrastinating and just start writing.
Yes, please do start writing, Leannah. Just focus on one tiny step at a time—even if it’s 10 minutes a day.
Love this! Thank you for sharing.
Thank you, Valerie.
You are incredible, every email and post is helpful. Your contributions had been so powerful that I cherished them like a secret.
Then one day….
I felt guilty for keeping your helpful tips from others.
So…
I shared it with 24 of my other team members!
Hope that was Okay.
Yes, of course, that’s okay. I much appreciate your sharing my tips with others. The more readers, the better. Thank you, David.
Awesome article. Glad you realize that I (as a reader) am always there to support you and want you to succeed as a writer!
Thank you, Waqar. I’m grateful for all support.
No one is born a writer. How true is this. Thanks Henneke for sharing your learnings through these wonderful years. Keep on writing because we enjoy it too much. A big hug from Argentina.
When you think about it, it’s kind of obvious that no one is born a writer, isn’t it? Any met a baby who can write? So, why is this myth so stubborn?
Thank you for your kind words, Fran. Big hug back to you.
Thank you for sharing, Henneke. You are my absolute inspiration!
And sometimes we need a reminder that if you want to be a writer – be a writer. Don’t shy away from it. And the words will come. With practice and consistency and useful tips from Henneke, but they will come.
Yes, it’s the practice and consistency that matter. It’s the doing (writing) that matters not the being (a writer).
Hi.
Inspirational, indeed.
Please share links to books you’ve written.
Kindly suggest books on writing.
Thank you, Naseer.
Here’s an overview of my books and courses: https://www.enchantingmarketing.com/books-and-courses/
And here’s a list of recommended books on writing: https://www.enchantingmarketing.com/best-books-on-writing/
Thanks so much for sharing your story! Your resilience and determination are impressive and I wish you well with your physical and emotional recovery. If the past few years have been you at half-speed, just imagine the possibilities when you’re at full-strength! Thanks as well for your encouragement to those of us who are wondering – “Can I become a writer, could I really do it?” Your website snd business have helped give me an educational foundation to start from and begin exploring my way, I just need to overcome the procrastination challenges! Best wishes to you!
I wonder sometimes, too, what’ll happen when I work again at full speed. But then I remind myself to make the most of right now, and that helps me to keep going and to enjoy my writing—even if it’s only a little.
Thanks so much for your kind words, Tree. Procrastination is tough but it can be overcome. What helps me most is focus on one tiny step at a time and not thing about the (big) goals. One tiny step. The work right in front of me.
You have been a big inspiration for me, and it was after reading your posts that I grew more as a writer.
This article is again an inspiration.
Thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much, Anmol. Happy writing!
Thank you for sharing this, Henneke! I love reading your posts and emails. Your honesty and humility have always been so refreshing! Hope I can also write the way you do.
Thank you so much for your kind message, Carol. I appreciate it.
Thank you for sharing this.
We (and others around us) can tell ourselves some pretty big lies. I’m glad you finally realized how amazing you are. I love your blog and your writing. Keep going 💛
Thank you for your kind words, Brittany. You’re so right about the pretty big lies. It took me a long time to see the lies for what they were but now I feel extra grateful for the time I can spend writing.
Hi,
I love your writing skills,very simple and easy to understand.
I am sorry to hear about your Trauma,I hope you are doing good.
Keep doing good work, you are my inspiration:)
Thank you, Leeza. I will keep going. I’m enjoying my writing too much! 🙂
Hi,
Thanks for your inspiration. English is my second language too. My writing skills is like a 3rd grade kid but I am in my 40s. So I have a lot of work to do in order to become a writer. Do you have any suggestions where should I start? What books should I read to help my writing skills? Thanks
I’m sure your English writing skills are better than you think.
If you want to improve your English writing, then it’s most useful to work with a language coach or editor. They can point out the mistakes you’re making and explain them so you can try to avoid them in future. Otherwise, just reading a lot helps. Reading can help increase vocabulary and improve understanding of sentence structure and rhythm. Any reading will help—just read what you enjoy.
If you want to improve your writing skills (rather than your English), here’s a list of recommended books: https://www.enchantingmarketing.com/best-books-on-writing/
Thank you so much for sharing this!! I’ve always wanted to write but have very little confidence that I could.
I was the same. I didn’t have any confidence either. I built that confidence slowly over the years.
I absolutely believe you!
I’m sorry you suffered a trauma, I hope you’re getting better day by day. 🤗
Thank you, Kim. I am getting better! And I started working a little more, too. It feels so good!